Saturday, July 21, 2012

It's Been Awhile

I haven't felt the desire to blog in some time, life has been good to me and when things are going well and I'm busy with work it's hard to find the desire or the need to blog but this morning I have the need.  I don't like to brag as I remember singledom only too well, it was not that long ago that I too was lonely and longed to have someone to share my life with but I have found so much more than just a lover, I have found my best friend, life partner, my No 1. supporter ... I've found a man who loves me just the way I am and I want to shout it from the rooftops.  My man doesn't demand that my hair be blonder, longer, tamed, or that I wear more make-up, or that I only wear dresses/skirts and certain types of undergarments/or no undergarments!, nor does he hold our relationship to ransom until I lose weight.  He doesn't criticise the way I laugh or what I say or how I say it.  He doesn't put me down if I'm a bit slow on the uptake.  He doesn't demean me or bully me or think I'm less of a person because I'm of the fairer sex.  It doesn't bother him that I wear my spectacles rather than my contact lens 99.9% of the time (even though my ophthalmologist says I should!).  He's not offended by my less than ladylike habits of occasionally burping and farting.  And get this, he doesn't even get angry about my snoring!!!  Quite simply I have found the most patient man in the world.

What got me thinking about the state of my love affair is that I have started to read the latest big literary craze, 50 Shades of Grey, and its making me realise that the majority of men I have dated in the past have all been into the whole dominant/submissive lifestyle to varying degrees ... i.e. control freaks.  Don't get me wrong there's nothing sexier than a dominant man in the boudoir or a man who behaves like a man outside of the bedroom.  Its just that the majority of men I have had relationships with in my life have all held their 'love', their 'attention', their 'affection' to ransom unless I met their constant demands and when I failed to comply 24/7, 7 days a week, 4 weeks a month etc they quickly lost interest and moved on to their next prey.  

I am so blessed to have finally found someone who loves me unconditionally ... I'm the luckiest girl in the world.

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